Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Grrrr At Men.

So Today has been a long day and I am stressed out and about ready to throw things at my husband. ( okay so maybe not but it feels good to think about it.)

Okay so Today I get up and take care of the laundry and the kids and clean up all day after them. 11:30 rolls around and I have to leave for work so I can get my check in the bank before I have to punch my time card. So as I getting ready to leave I have put the baby down for a nap and my little girl is laying down watching cartoons. Now I time to wake up daddy.

Everything was fine he was up and I kissed everyone and headed out. Things are going well at work. I am in my groove cutting up with my co workers and lunch rolls around. I get a call from my mom. My three year old daughter has walked to my grandparents which is a quarter of a mile from our place... Now we live on a family farm so there was no road involve but still my three year old walked alone down there. We live in the woods what if they hadn't been home or if she had walked into a snake or a stray dog that wasn't friendly?


Where was her father you ask.. Asleep that's right ASLEEP. So my 80 year old grandfather comes to the house and he can't get his lazy butt out of bed. So he gets the baby from the crib who has been in there screaming for god knows how long and takes him back to their house. Now I understand Daddy is tired because he worked third shift the night before and has only gotten 5 hours of sleep.

We can't afford a baby sitter and we have to make due with each other. So I get he is tired but so am I. I get up at the crack of dawn with the kids feed them bathe them. Nap them fix cups do laundry and sneak a shower in. Then I go to work for the rest of the night. So yeah I am beat to but that is how the cookie crumbles. For months I worked two jobs while he stayed home but did I fall asleep and let my children roam in the woods, NO! I got my butt up and took care of my responsibilities.

I haven't had the chance to talk to him yet as He was already at work when I got off but I am so steaming mad. I mean is it really too much for me to want him to put some effort into taking care of our children... Am I overreacting? Normally he is a good father but this just makes my blood boil.. Maybe I will cool off before the morning maybe not. I guess I will see then.

Alrighty I think it's time for me to get my behind in bed I will have work again tomorrow and maybe just maybe my husband will actually take care of our children why I am there.