Cooled off...

Okay so I am not as mad today as I was last night. I am still upset but I am less likely to toss a toaster or something at him. lol. I guess I just need to get over it but it was irresponsible and it scared the living day lights out of me.

Alright so on to other things now I have vented enough. I worked a full eight hour shift last night which believe me apart from last Friday it is rare. It was a pretty good night except from the news at lunch. We have a good crew and a good boss so we usually have pretty good nights.

So I had a pretty good night but for some reason I wake up this morning and I feel well the only way I can think to say it is numb. I put on a darn good face for everyone I am always bubbly it seems and in a decent mood. But there seem to be a lot of days I just don't feel anything anymore. I am not depressed I don't think.. Just numb.

I have gained what seems to be 248754754547 million pounds in the last few months and it is driving me insane. I wasn't tiny to start out with but now I am just getting fat( Well at least I think so.) I have never been really pretty, I don't think I am ugly but just not very pretty but I have always had my body to fall back on and now I am loosing that. I am becoming the typical Fat unattractive mother you always see on tacky sitcoms.

I walk into a room now and I just feel ugh. unattractive I feel slobbish like there is no point and trying anymore. Sure I still put some effort into it but it doesn't seem to help. I have acne I can't get rid of and my waist is expanding by the second. I step on the scale at work and all I can think is " You are such a Cow it is a wonder you even have a husband who wants to look at you." I feel like I am losing myself and I really want me back.

I want the bubbly girl who makes everyone laugh and doesn't give a damn what anyone else things of her. All of the sudden I have become this self conscious woman desperately seeking approval from others. That isn't me and I know that but what I don't know is how to find the real Candeh again.

Maybe this is the way its supposed to be. You get married you have kids you get old and fat. But if it is someone shoot me now. I mean I love my kids they are the best things I have ever made and I wouldn't trade them for anything but something is missing, there is something I am lacking and for the life of me I can't figure out what it is.

I don't have the best marriage as we have established but I do love him. We just are so different. He is quiet and shy and reserved while I am outgoing and talkative and love to have fun and laugh. I love to sing at the top of lungs, dance and just be goofy sometimes. I really hope life isn't supposed to be like this forever.

Sometimes I think maybe I married the wrong person. I love him I really do but we just don't seem to click the way we used to and I find myself wondering if maybe just maybe the person I am supposed to be with is out there with someone else just as miserable as I am.... Or maybe I am just not trying hard enough.

Well that is enough for today I need a smoke ( Yes I know it is bad for me). So until tomorrow. Candeh out!